The Solution is…

…there is no solution. That’s the solution.

What?

No. Really. Sometimes in life there are no solutions to some things, and so the solution is that there is no solution. You accept it and move on. I realized that today.

And by move on, I’m not saying that her and I are not seeing each other anymore. I’m saying that we stop trying to solve this problem, just accept the situation for what it is, and move on to things that we can solve.

The root cause is fear. As it says in the book Dune, “Fear is the mind killer.” What we need to do is start removing the things that cause us to fear, start nibbling away at them one at a time until they crumble and fall. Eliminate the fear so that in the long run a solution can then present itself.

Until then, our situation is the result of other situations which have to be solved first.

Does that make sense?

In the meantime, we’ll be together Friday, and both of us are very happy and excited by that!

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